Sessions
In-Person Sessions:
I provide in-person spanking sessions in Utrecht, the Netherlands, conducted in a safe, cozy, and private domestic environment. Appointments are flexible and can be scheduled on any day of the week, including weekends. Outcall sessions can be arranged to local residences or reputable hotels. Please note that there will be a transportation fee for outcall sessions.
No sexual activity will be permitted before, during, or after my spanking sessions. I am a disciplinarian and solely provide safe and consensual spanking play between consenting adults. For all my sessions, discretion and confidentiality are both expected and assured.
I warmly welcome individuals of all genders and I provide an LGBTQ-friendly environment. Whether you're a seasoned spanko or a novice, everyone is encouraged to explore and enjoy my sessions. I provide spanking sessions to individuals as well as couples.
Tributes vary according to the session duration (thirty to ninety minutes), and I appreciate your understanding in refraining from negotiation. I want to emphasize that my sessions are always unhurried. It's essential for us to have discussions both before and after the actual spanking time. The chosen time indicates the duration of the spanking play itself and does not include the pre and post-session conversations.
Prioritizing personal health and safety, I make sure that all implements and surfaces used during a session receive meticulous cleaning and disinfection.
Styles of Spankings:
Behavior modification — Focused on changing habits or correcting ongoing patterns of behavior.
Discipline — Structured correction to reinforce rules and expectations.
Maintenance — Regular spankings to maintain discipline, consistency, and accountability.
Motivation —Spanking used to encourage progress toward personal goals.
Punishment — Consequences for specific misbehavior, designed to deter future infractions.
Spanking just for the sake of spanking — Enjoyment of the spanking experience, no reason needed, you are simply a spanko who likes to be spanked!
Therapeutic —Spanking as an outlet for stress release or emotional balance.
Implements:
Belts
Brushes
Canes
Carpet beater
Hand
Paddles
Riding crop
Straps
Wooden spoons
Additional activities during in-person sessions may include:
Corner time — Reflection either in silence or with lecture. Can be done before, during, and/or after the spanking.
Cross-dressing — Clothing brought by the spankee to wear in session, creating vulnerability or indulging in dressing up.
Diaper play (clean diapers only) — Strictly for humiliation and humbling the spankee, sometimes including the use of powder, but never involving use.
Inspections — Ensuring the spankee, and especially their bottom, is properly presented and ready for discipline.
Lecture — A formal talk outlining expectations, rules, and consequences.
Scolding — A sharp reprimand delivered in the moment, often leaving the spankee feeling smaller.
Light face slapping — Quick, stinging reminders to focus or cooperate, sometimes used to encourage mouth soaping.
Line writing — Repetitive written tasks to reinforce a lesson, sometimes combined with counted swats or time on the naughty mat.
Mouth soaping — An old fashioned consequence for bad language, backtalk, or breaking habits, leaving a lingering aftertaste.
Naughty mat punishment — Sitting on a natural fiber mat as punishment, far more painful than most expect, used before, during, and/or after the spanking.
Spanking panties — Being put into special underwear that highlights the bottom and adds ritual to the spanking.
Wet bottom spankings — Spanking applied when the skin is wet, greatly heightening the sting and sensitivity.
Kneeling on rice — A harsh punishment that forces the spankee to hold position while kneeling on small piles of rice.
Hair pulling — A quick, corrective action to reinforce authority, never harsh, just enough to get attention.
Ear pulling — A sharp reprimand used to lead or reposition a spankee, often to guide them to the corner.
Behavior reports from a spouse or partner — Notes, letters, or requests from the spankee’s spouse or partner that add accountability and connect discipline to real life conduct.
Assignments before and after sessions — Written work, reflection papers, or behavior tracking, used to prepare the spankee and reinforce lessons afterwards.
Virtual Sessions:
I also offer both short- and long-term virtual sessions. These can be had via phone, video calls, email, or text. Virtual sessions center around accountability, adherence to rules, task completion, goal achievement, punishments, rewards. They may also include assignments—typically for behavior modification and motivation. Tribute rates vary based on the level of accountability the spankee seeks.
Under my supervision, activities during virtual sessions may include:
Chores — Assigned household tasks to complete on a daily or weekly basis.
Daily accountability — A daily check-in reported through texting, where you confirm tasks completed, behavior maintained, or rules followed, ensuring ongoing structure and supervision.
Mandatory bedtimes — Bedtimes set by me, with proof required to show you are in bed when ordered.
Confessions — Admitting misbehavior or rule breaking directly to me, either written or spoken during the virtual session.
Corner time — Reflection either in silence or with lecture. In virtual sessions you position yourself where I can see you, or if done on your own time then proof will be needed.
Lecture — A formal talk outlining expectations, rules, and consequences.
Spanking panties — Being put into special underwear designed for spanking to highlight the bottom and add ritual. In virtual sessions you wear them on command and present yourself as instructed.
Self mouth soaping — The spankee soaps their own mouth on my command as an old fashioned consequence for language or attitude.
Self spanking — The spankee administers their own spanking under my strict direction, often with counted strokes or a set implement.
Taking away certain personal pleasures — Temporary removal of privileges, such as television, gaming, sweets, or other small indulgences.
Writing lines or assignments — Repetitive written tasks to reinforce a lesson. Photos are submitted as proof of lines written, and assignments are emailed by the deadline given.
I also provide virtual sessions focused solely on discussions about spanking and the community associated with it. After all, what spanko doesn't enjoy conversing about their shared interests with another spanking enthusiast? In select cases, I may also teach you about the art of spanking and acceptance of your spanking self.
If you're interested in a in-person or virtual session with me, kindly email a polite and sincere message specifying the type of session you are seeking to NaturallyGin@gmail.com
